Psalm 1:1 Blessed is the person who does not walk in the counsel of the wicked or stand in the way of sinners or sit in the seat of mockers, but his delight is in the law of the Lord and on his law he meditates day and night. He is like a tree planted by streams of water for the Lord watches over the way of the righteous.

It's a good life when you're loved by your Creator God. To allow life to unfold as it was meant is so much better than forcing life to fit our terms.